| Wedding anniversaries are special events. | | | | The couple can find delight in sharing tasks |
| Especially those big ones that mark 10th, 20th, | | | | together. I remember taking care of my baby |
| 30th, 40th and 50th anniverary . | | | | son. He would cry in the middle of the night |
| On that special day, you can take time off to | | | | wanting either to change diapers or to be fed. We |
| reminisce the past. You can take a look at your | | | | would turn turns looking after baby. She would be |
| mementos starting from your first date. Do dust | | | | tired out attending to his night time needs after |
| off the photo album and go through pictures of | | | | one or two days. I would then take care of baby |
| special occasions such as your wedding day or | | | | on the subsequent nights. |
| delivery of your newborn child. You can play the | | | | We go to church together to worship the Lord |
| video of your wedding day or dress up in your | | | | and it's such a wonderful spiritual experience |
| wedding clothes. Maybe by now they are too | | | | every Sunday. We also go to the gym and |
| small or tight for you. | | | | workout together. |
| On this day, you stop and reflect the state of | | | | Both partners need to have same mindset or |
| the union between husband and wife. Then it hits | | | | similar interest. Both my wife and I enjoy going to |
| you so hard that you have actually spent so little | | | | the movies, love children and enjoy traveling. |
| time on your dear spouse. Why? We have got to | | | | What similar interests do you have as a couple ? |
| concentrate mind and soul on our careers and | | | | Find out what similar interests both of you have. |
| slog hard from morning to night at the office. By | | | | Is it a particular kind of food, movies or travels? |
| the end of the day, both partners are tired and | | | | And when baby comes along , make sure you |
| too exhausted to talk to each other. Then your | | | | also have some time to spend on your own. |
| focus of attention will be on your kids. You have | | | | Ideally, you could get your parents or parents in |
| to take care of them play with them ,feed them, | | | | law to help take care of baby. |
| monitor them and supervise them . You have to | | | | On this special day, take time to reflect what |
| check whether they have eaten , bathed and | | | | both of you wanted to do together but never |
| done their homework. | | | | got down to doing it either due to work or family |
| Besides work and family commitments, you | | | | commitments. Find out what he or she likes . If |
| have to worry about finance . Do you have | | | | she is fond of good food then bring her out for a |
| enough money to pay bills ranging from housing, | | | | good scrumptious meal at a expensive restaurant |
| car loans, groceries, clothes, school fees? It's | | | | . If she likes shopping then bring her out to her |
| enough to kill the joy of marriage. | | | | favorite shopping mall and help to buy dresses |
| But on the other hand , you can reflect on the | | | | and whatever she likes (something like Richard |
| positive, such as overcoming problems and | | | | Gere bringing Julia Roberts out in ' Pretty Woman' |
| obstacles through strength and perseverance. | | | | and decking out her in designer fashion wear) She |
| Both partners should share something in | | | | may like you to serenade to her with a beautiful |
| common. Shared experiences makes a lot of | | | | song or poem. Lastly, a bouquet of flowers work |
| difference. Here are a few examples.Saving | | | | wonders too. You can commemorate each |
| money to buy your first house. The two partners | | | | wedding anniversary by exchanging anniversary |
| deciding where to live, and what kind of house to | | | | rings. |
| live in. | | | | |