| Wedding anniversaries are special events. | | | | |
| Especially those big ones that mark 10th, | | | | The couple can find delight in sharing tasks |
| 20th, 30th, 40th and 50th anniverary . | | | | together. I remember taking care of my baby |
| | | | son. He would cry in the middle of the night |
| On that special day, you can take time off | | | | wanting either to change diapers or to be |
| to reminisce the past. You can take a look at | | | | fed. We would turn turns looking after baby. |
| your mementos starting from your first date. | | | | She would be tired out attending to his night |
| Do dust off the photo album and go through | | | | time needs after one or two days. I would |
| pictures of special occasions such as your | | | | then take care of baby on the subsequent |
| wedding day or delivery of your newborn | | | | nights. |
| child. You can play the video of your wedding | | | | |
| day or dress up in your wedding clothes. | | | | We go to church together to worship the |
| Maybe by now they are too small or tight for | | | | Lord and it's such a wonderful spiritual |
| you. | | | | experience every Sunday. We also go to the |
| | | | gym and workout together. |
| On this day, you stop and reflect the state | | | | |
| of the union between husband and wife. Then | | | | Both partners need to have same mindset or |
| it hits you so hard that you have actually | | | | similar interest. Both my wife and I enjoy |
| spent so little time on your dear spouse. | | | | going to the movies, love children and enjoy |
| Why? We have got to concentrate mind and soul | | | | traveling. |
| on our careers and slog hard from morning to | | | | |
| night at the office. By the end of the day, | | | | What similar interests do you have as a |
| both partners are tired and too exhausted to | | | | couple ? Find out what similar interests both |
| talk to each other. Then your focus of | | | | of you have. Is it a particular kind of food, |
| attention will be on your kids. You have to | | | | movies or travels? |
| take care of them play with them ,feed them, | | | | |
| monitor them and supervise them . You have to | | | | And when baby comes along , make sure you |
| check whether they have eaten , bathed and | | | | also have some time to spend on your own. |
| done their homework. | | | | Ideally, you could get your parents or |
| | | | parents in law to help take care of baby. |
| Besides work and family commitments, you | | | | |
| have to worry about finance . Do you have | | | | On this special day, take time to reflect |
| enough money to pay bills ranging from | | | | what both of you wanted to do together but |
| housing, car loans, groceries, clothes, | | | | never got down to doing it either due to work |
| school fees? It's enough to kill the joy of | | | | or family commitments. Find out what he or |
| marriage. | | | | she likes . If she is fond of good food then |
| | | | bring her out for a good scrumptious meal at |
| But on the other hand , you can reflect on | | | | a expensive restaurant . If she likes |
| the positive, such as overcoming problems and | | | | shopping then bring her out to her favorite |
| obstacles through strength and perseverance. | | | | shopping mall and help to buy dresses and |
| | | | whatever she likes (something like Richard |
| | | | Gere bringing Julia Roberts out in ' Pretty |
| Both partners should share something in | | | | Woman' and decking out her in designer |
| common. Shared experiences makes a lot of | | | | fashion wear) She may like you to serenade to |
| difference. Here are a few examples.Saving | | | | her with a beautiful song or poem. Lastly, a |
| money to buy your first house. The two | | | | bouquet of flowers work wonders too. You can |
| partners deciding where to live, and what | | | | commemorate each wedding anniversary by |
| kind of house to live in. | | | | exchanging anniversary rings. |