| Let's face it: Your wedding is going to cost more | | | | If you must do this, forget the multiple pieces of |
| than you thought it would. You were lucky to find | | | | paper. Put the 'please RSPV by' at the bottom of |
| that reception hall. You could have chosen the | | | | the invitation. See 'Making Your Own Wedding |
| cheaper wedding dress. But the one you bought | | | | Invitations' below.Provide liquor and/or chocolate |
| was perfect. Making your own invitations might | | | | to your invitation-making crew.Making Your Own |
| seem like the way to make up for that.But is it? | | | | Wedding Invitations--Go to a specialty paper store |
| Will you save money? | | | | and finger the samples. |
| Or will you simply invest in needless | | | | Even if you end up buying online. You need to |
| aggravation?Before deciding to make your own | | | | know what 60-85 pound paper feels like.Hint: it |
| invitations ask yourself these five questions#1 | | | | has to do with the thickness. Printer paper is |
| Am I willing to spend entire days putting together | | | | somewhere around 20-25 pounds. Invitations |
| invitations?An invitation made out of three | | | | typically weigh in at 65-85 pounds.--Keep it simple. |
| different papers looks gorgeous. But is it worth it? | | | | Extra layers mean extra hours. And extra |
| Making even simple invitations takes time. Picture | | | | expense.Invitation 'kits' (which include blank |
| hours of tedium.This is on top of the time you | | | | invitations, envelopes, reply cards, etc.) will make |
| spend addressing the things.Remember, whatever | | | | your life easier.Be sure to buy paper that's |
| time you spend on invitations is time taken away | | | | compatible with your printer. If you have an |
| from other parts of your wedding.#2 Do I hate all | | | | ink-jet, for example, don't buy laser-jet |
| the ready made invitations I've seen?Do a lot of | | | | paper.--Automate. |
| research before you answer this. Hundreds of | | | | Consider purchasing an invitation making |
| companies make invitations. Check out at least | | | | computer program. You'll get some nice fonts. |
| half a dozen before you give up.If you absolutely | | | | And customizable templates.Three Ways To Save |
| hate everything you've seen, see the tips under | | | | Money--Watch your weight |
| 'Making your own Wedding Invitations' below.#3 | | | | The post office charges extra for heavy and/or |
| Do I have a crew of reliable people who have | | | | oversized invitations. Check with them before you |
| agreed to help me?This answer can make or | | | | make your invitations.--Bulk Up |
| break you. Please don't try to make 200 wedding | | | | Buy fancy paper in bulk. Save even more by |
| invitations alone. It's a good way to drive yourself | | | | printing two invitations on one 8 1/2 X 11 sheet. |
| nuts.Or it can add unnecessary stress if you | | | | Each invitation will be a long rectangle. Very |
| make invitations as a couple.A reliable crew will | | | | modern.--Mooch |
| turn invitation making into a social occasion instead | | | | Don't buy specialty equipment to cut those |
| of a blood bath.#4 Is my budget so small that | | | | invitations. Go into your local copier store like you |
| this is my only option?Then that's just the way it | | | | own the place and use their equipment. Bring a |
| goes. See 'Making Your Own Wedding | | | | few sheets of something to photocopy if they |
| Invitations.'#5 Am I having a small wedding?If | | | | give you the hairy eyeball.These questions and |
| you're only inviting 10-20 people, go for it. You'll still | | | | your answers will help you decide if making |
| be at it for hours if you make complex invitations. | | | | wedding invitations is right for you. And help you |
| But they'll be beautiful.30-80: The upper limit of | | | | avoid common mistakes if the answer is |
| sanity. | | | | yes.Happy planning!Amy Lee Johnson is a |
| Try to have enough invitation makers on your | | | | freelance writer who often contributes to a site |
| team to keep the 'invitation to person' ratio at | | | | that gives useful hints and tips such as buying |
| 15:1.80+: Frustration here we come. | | | | wedding invitations or writing wedding vows. |