Relationship before Function

As many are aware, I'm quite an advocate forHe wanted an intimate relationship with me. I
the growing house church "movement" and loveremember thinking He was mad at me and, when
helping others to establish churches in theirI REALLY messed up, I was that much farther
homes, coffee shops, office breakrooms, etc. I'maway from Him than I had been. Regardless, I still
having a ball doing this and it's VERY rewarding. Iworshipped Him, too scared to do
was recently looking at Luke Chapter 10 versesotherwise.Sadly, there are millions like that! The
1-9 and there are some principles found thereharvest is abundant, as Jesus said. Multitudes need
that will not only prove beneficial to the "houseto know that God is not "out there" but wants to
churchers" among us, but ANY Christian whoselive large "IN THEM," for WE are the temple of
heart is set on advancing the Kingdom ofthe Holy Spirit, that same Spirit that raised Jesus
God.Let's take a look at the Amplified version.from the dead.Verses 7 and 8: They were told to
Here it is:1...the Lord chose and appointed seventy"...stay on in the same house, eating and drinking
others and sent them out ahead of Him, two bywhat they provide, for the laborer is worthy of
two, into every town and place where He Himselfhis wages. Do not keep moving from house to
was about to come (visit).2And He [Jesus] said tohouse. Whenever you go into a town and they
them, The harvest indeed is abundant [there isreceive and accept and welcome you, eat what is
much ripe grain], but the farmhands are few. Prayset before you..." Stay with them? Imagine it's
therefore the Lord of the harvest to send outTom's first day at work and a fellow named
laborers into His harvest.3Go your way; behold, IJerry comes by and invites him to join the gang
send you out like lambs into the midst ofat the local bar to have a TGIF celebration. A
wolves.4Carry no purse, no provisions bag, noChristian, Tom hardens his brow and says to
[change of] sandals; refrain from [retarding yourJerry, "No, thank you, I'm a Christian and I don't
journey by] saluting and wishing anyone well alonggo to places like that." What happened? Tom
the way.5Whatever house you enter, first say,hasn't merely turned down Jerry's invitation; he's
Peace be to this household! [Freedom from all theturned Jerry down, turned him off and turned him
distresses that result from sin be with thisaway in the process.How much more effective
family].6And if anyone [worthy] of peace andwould it have been had Tom RECEIVED Jerry's
blessedness is there, the peace and blessednesshospitality - the only kind he knew how to offer,
you wish shall come upon him; but if not, it shallby the way. He was being KIND to Tom - a godly
come back to you.7And stay on in the samequality - and may well be a worshipper of God,
house, eating and drinking what they provide, forthe best he knew how at any rate. He was
the laborer is worthy of his wages. Do not keepextending his hand of friendship and inviting Tom
moving from house to house.8Whenever you gointo his world to meet his friends, maybe even
into a town and they receive and accept andfamily at some point. "Come and eat and drink
welcome you, eat what is set before you;9Andwith us, TOM!" was what he was saying. But Tom
heal the sick in it and say to them, The kingdomsaid, "No!" A door had been shut by Tom's
of God has come close to you.Known for hisreaction, when Jerry had graciously opened his
ministry as a House Church planter, author andculture to him.Remember verse one? JESUS is
speaker Tony Dale emphasizes the fact thatplanning to show up but He's sending out His team
House Church is NOT merely a gathering or evenFIRST.Guys like Tom.Guys like us.He allowed Tom
a location; it's a way of life. As he says, thereto have that job, not merely so he could eat or
must surely be something more to this thanpay bills, but as a means for advancing the
exchanging pews for couches. How can it beKingdom of God. Jesus WILL show up, but not if
anything else for Christianity is not merely anotherChristians go springing religion and
of the world's great religions; it's aself-righteousness on everyone and squelching
moment-to-moment relationship with the Creator.those Divine opportunities. Granted, there are
Bearing this in mind, it's more easily conceivabletimes when we MUST graciously bow out. Time
that wherever we Christians find ourselves at anyconstraints might cause us to say, "Sounds like
moment, that may well be the spot where wefun, but can I take a raincheck?" Leave the door
can begin to influence people for the Kingdom andopen. Now, if Jerry's gang had been going to a
see lives transformed.Verse 1: We see that Jesustopless club, by all means, use discernment. "Jerry,
"sent them out ahead of Him." That means theyI'd love to hang out with you guys but I'm not
went FIRST but He would soon be coming ontocomfortable in places like that...can we go
the scene. As disciples ourselves, have you foundsomewhere else? How 'bout lunch tomorrow...my
that to be the case today as well? All we have totreat?" He would probably respect that and, at
be is available!Verse 2: Despite having assembledthe very least, invite you to something more to
an outreach team of 72 (some say even more),your liking another time.Verse 8 essentially
Jesus laments that there's so much work to doencourages us to move into THEIR environment.
and 72 is simply not enough. We need more ofJesus is our example of that. Didn't He leave HIS
us!Verse 3: The team is reminded that they areculture for the sake of planet Earth?A lady asked
vulnerable and are about to engage in Spiritualme if I'd speak at her Brisket, Beer and Bible
Warfare. Yet, they were trained. The call toStudy. I didn't hesitate to commit myself. The
serve is really a call to prepare. Have you beenpeople she said she'll be inviting are kids who've
preparing?Verse 4: They're instructed not to bringdone drugs, been in jail, people who don't feel
anything with them because they won't beaccepted in churches. If like-minded Christians
staying. They are also told, essentially, not towould join forces in a similar manner, we could
dilly-dally. There was to be no chit-chatting withhave an incredible impact on our community.
others they meet along the way; they were on a(Anybody care to throw a party?)When you get
mission, after all. Instead, they were to keep athere - to that place outside your element - love
look out for someone VERY important. Who?those you find there. Let the expression of Christ
Read on.Verse 5: Jesus told them something veryflow through you. I once officiated a wedding that
interesting. He said, "Whatever house you enter,was held in a bar. Everyone, including the groom,
first say, Peace be to this household!" Today, Hewas sipping beer before the wedding even began.
might have said, "When you go to the office, theThat was the most enjoyable wedding I can
plant, Starbuck's, class, a Chamber of Commerceremember. I mingled and "worked the crowd."
mixer, BE to them the expression of God thatAfterward, I sat down and ate with an Hispanic
you are and let them experience the Peace ofman about my age, with a shaved head and a
Christ through you. If you feel that same peace2-foot braided pony tail hanging down his back.
returned to you by another, THIS is the personWe enjoyed each other's company, laughed quite
you can build a church with (minister to, pray for,a bit as I recall. I told him how to reach me and
etc.)!" Here's a tip: Instead of inviting these peoplemade myself available. Another man asked me if
to church - asking them to abandon THEIR cultureI made a pretty good living doing weddings. When
in exchange for YOUR church's friendly confines -I told him that I don't charge, he grabbed a $50
why not get to know THEM in THEIR world?bill from his wallet and said, "Here ya go, I need a
Chances are, they'll gladly invite family and friendsblessing and I believe in reapin' and sowin'." The
to meet you and... POOF...instant Church! I heardnext day, the bride came by my office and
about an East Indian Christian woman who wasgleefully said "everyone just loved you at the
walking around a village, praying. When someonewedding."Verse 9: Jesus says, "heal the sick in it
asked what she was doing, she said she wasand say to them, the Kingdom of God has come
looking for people to pray for. She was invited inclose to you..." Be discerning and see if there's a
by many. Eventually, she established 50 houseneed where God could step in. As I minister in
churches, that in a nation with millions of godsnursing homes and when I've gone to jails and
(note the lower case "g").Verse 6: Jesus added,hospitals, I've NEVER had a single person say they
"And if anyone of peace and blessedness is there,did NOT want me to pray for them. What I
the peace and blessedness you wish shall comeHAVE heard is people who say, "I don't know
upon him..." In other words, if that person ishow to pray." I've even seen people cry while I
someone you can work with, you'll know it by theprayed and afterward admit to me that NO ONE
Spirit! In Acts 16:14, Paul was preaching by thehas EVER prayed for them.Imagine!Sure, we could
river and one who was listening was a womanoffer to literally pray for the sick as we enter into
named Lydia. The verse says, "She was [already]these strange cultures, but how about those with
a worshiper of God, and the Lord opened hersick marriages or sick finances, sick emotions, a
heart to pay attention to what was said by Paul."sick spirit, sick of being unemployed, or just sick
No, she wasn't a Christian - and she may haveof being addicted and failing all the time? The
not yet even heard the story of Jesus and Hisverse says to tell them about the Kingdom of
Kingdom message. Yet, she was referred to asGod. It doesn't tell us to tell them they're sinners.
"a worshipper of God." She could have been aThey already know that, I assure you. Tell them
Muslim, a Satanist, a New Age guru, athere's a King who loves them and cares about
Buddhist...she was probably not a Jew because itthem. The woman at the well is a grand example
was the Sabbath and she was not in the templeof that. Jesus said to her, "Does anyone condemn
AND she was working besides. Scripture clearlyyou? Neither do I." He's been called a Friend of
says, however, says she was a worshipper ofSinners, more comfortable with the down and
God and a Church was started at her house.I'mouters than with the religious crowd. He loved
convinced that the Lord's primary method ofthem and they loved Him; the self righteous got
evangelism was probably not open-air crusades.His indignation.We can always find a way to bless
Yes, we have a few examples of that, but I thinkand give hope. People are too often being cursed
there were far more one-on-one situations - theby the Church, condemned and reminded of how
kind of opportunities constantly available to youbad they are. "You're a sinner, bud." We forget
and me today as well. ALL Christians canthat, if not for God's grace, so are we. Just as
penetrate pockets of darkness by crossing overGod said to Adam, "Who told you that you were
to where we are no longer "culturallynaked?", I can hear Him asking the Church today,
comfortable." We have to get out of our Christian"Who told you that you were divorced, illegitimate,
ghetto and rub shoulders with others in order toa fornicator, a drunkard...who told you - a child
find those "worshippers of God." They're outthat I love - one I sent My Son to die for...that
there, trust me.Personally, there was a time inyou were the scum of the Earth? I call you My
my life when I was quite a devout "worshipper offriend, My child, My warrior, my priest, my chosen
God." Christian girls often mistook me for one ofone. Who told you all those lies about
"them." Sadly, the "god" to whom I paid myyourself?"Let us remember to DEMONSTRATE
homage was named "Mike." It was ME all along. Ithe presence of God before our preaching will
KNEW there was a GOD "out there" but all I sawever be received. Spurgeon said, "Before you give
around me was Religion - not relationship - anda man a tract, wrap it in a sandwich." The same
condemnation. Trying to "be good" seemedprinciple applies. It's called "Relationship before
impossible for me to do no matter how hard IFunction." They want to know how much you
tried. Sure, I heard the old Bible stories, but Icare before they care how much you know. As
wasn't meeting anyone who testified of what HeGod intervenes, your testimony, your ministry will
was doing NOW, at this moment in time, and thatbe more than welcome.