Wedding Favors: A Brief History

For many centuries wedding favors have been alimited to her imagination when it comes to
part of traditional wedding ceremonies, across aselecting the gifts that will demonstrate esteem
wide range of cultures. Initially wedding favorsfrom the blessed couple.
were an extravagance at celebrations hosted bySince the sixteenth century, bridegroom couples
European upper classes, who had the wealth tohave been giving gifts to wedding guests as a
provide elaborate gifts to guests. The earlygesture of gratitude for sharing in the beginning of
wedding favors began as small fancy boxes,their new life together. Today, gifts to the guests
known by their French name of bonboniere. Aare known as wedding favors and are
bonboniere was fashioned of crystal, porcelain orcommonplace in ceremonies worldwide. The small
gold and often encrusted with precious stones.gifts may vary according to the culture, wealth
The delicate boxes were meant to hold bonbonsand the interests of the couple, or theme of the
or other confectionery delicacies, at a time whenwedding. When it comes to the decision for the
sugar was quite expensive. Sugar was also highlyright wedding favor, the options are unlimited. A
valued by all, as it was believed to have medicinalbeautifully decorated placecard at the reception
benefits.table, can make a lovely and inexpensive
The tradition of providing gifts to guests wasmemento. For couples with larger budgets, a
adopted by individuals of modest means byvintage bottle of wine with a personalized label is
selecting simple treats as gifts. Every culturean excellent way of commemorating the event.
across time has a approached marriage as aFrequently a bride may select wedding favors
wonderful event, with the nuptials celebratedintended to complement the décor of the
throughout the community. In many societies thereception table.
bride and groom are associated with good luck, aWedding party favors are special gifts provided to
common thought was that everything theymembers of the wedding party. The heartfelt
touched would be charmed. By gifting membersgifts may be distributed by the bridegroom couple
of the community, they would then pass thoseat the time of the rehearsal dinner or before the
same blessings onto others. Many brides wouldwedding, in appreciation for assistance in creating
choose to distribute this good luck by preparing athe couples memorable day. Like the wedding
small gift of almonds, beautifully wrapped in anfavors given to all guests, there are unlimited
elegant fabric. The custom in the Middle East ispossibilities for these special gifts. Typically they
for the bride to provide five almonds to representmay be specialized items of a higher dollar value
fertility, longevity, wealth, health and happiness.and may be engraved with the name or
For more than a millennium, almonds weremonogram of the individual in the party.
commonly given as wedding gifts to the couple,A common denominator among all modern brides,
signifying the good wishes on their new liferegardless of cultural background or budget, is for
together. In the thirteenth century the practice ofthe bride to take pride in the giving and selecting
coating almonds in sugar became popular, the newthe right wedding favor. The majority of wedding
confections were called "confetti". Over time,details are bound by tradition or cost, but the
confetti has transformed to Jordan almonds, nowwedding favor provides the bride a chance to
a staple of many wedding celebrations. Theshow her personality and really consider what will
combination of the almond and candy signify thedelight her guests. Many reusable favors from
bitter sweetness of marriage. Today, Jordancandles, to statuary can be purchased for as little
almonds provide one of the most common andas a dollar each. Edible favors can be purchased or
traditional wedding favors when they are wrappedcreated for as little as fifty cents a person, while
in small bundles of delicate fabric or lace and tiedmaintaining the European tradition of giving
with ribbon. Though the most traditional ofconfectionery delights.
wedding favors are still appreciated, a bride is only