Planning Your Own Wedding: Opulence on a Dime

According to the Bridal Association of America,place, meaning you get away with not purchasing
the average cost of a wedding runs most couplespricey flower arrangements, fragrant wreaths,
a whopping $30,375 (1)!garland, and candles. The venue of your choosing,
Yes, now may be the time for many of us to cutmost likely a church or some other community
a few corners by purchasing affordable weddingplace, will have all these decorations available to
favors, food, and decorations, but this doesn'tyou free of charge (save, of course, for the cost
mean you have to sacrifice beauty and eleganceof renting the space). All you need are the
when planning your own wedding. In order todiscount dress, a budget meal, affordable wedding
save a few bucks and even reduce overallfavors, the groom, and presto, instant wedding!
spending, many brides-to-be are postponing theirIf you're dead-set on a spring or summer fete
long-awaited wedding days for more prosperouswhen planning your own wedding, have it outside
times. Instead of waiting, however, you couldin a friend's or family member's backyard. Or,
simply scale back your wedding. Fortunately, therechoose a quiet park and set up a garden arbor
are many ways to make your wedding just asand trellises adorned with flowers to complete the
special if you hunt around for deals on tastefullook. To get your flowers at a reduced cost,
yet affordable wedding favors, refreshments, andcheck with your local florist, who might be able to
flowers - in fact, taking advantage of bargains andgive you a discount on leftover bouquets or
discounts while planning your own wedding dayarrangements.
and doing many things yourself could be the veryYou can also purchase from a flower wholesaler
highlight of your special day.to get flowers at deep discounts; however, keep
Simple, Affordable Wedding Favors are Key: Forin mind that you will be responsible for creating,
the bride planning her own wedding with little timearranging, watering, and transporting the bouquets
as it is, envisioning and making 150 affordablefor the wedding day. Above all, ensure that your
wedding favors sounds a little ridiculous (read timechosen flowers are in season.
consuming), and while many sites recommend youFood and Refreshments that Don't Break the
make these yourself, the cost of constructionBank: Feeding 75, 100, or even 250 guests can
and materials would probably be higher than justget pretty expensive, even if you scaled back
biting the bullet and buying pre-made (thoughwith an inexpensive wedding dress and affordable
affordable) wedding favors. A lot of times youwedding favors. Even estimating $10 at the very
can find favors for well under $1.00 each. Aleast for each dinner can send your budget
recent check on quality, affordable weddingskyrocketing. And you obviously do not want to
favors showed charming silver mint tins for $0.52,forego delicious food to help cut costs.
bride and groom swizzle sticks for $0.75, andFortunately, you have a few options when
place card holders for $0.94.planning your own wedding: the modern bride has
In addition to purchasing affordable weddingrealized that feeding her guests an elaborate,
favors, remember always to buy enough the firstthree-course dinner is not necessary and certainly
time around. If in doubt, buy slightly over yournot required. After all, guests are there to
estimated head count. And try to order withcelebrate the happy couple's special day and
plenty of time to spare to avoid exorbitantshould not be coming for 'hand-outs.' So, why not
shipping costs, meaning you should start planningconsider serving satisfying, but light hors
your own wedding far in advance to ensure thisd'oeuvres? From fruit and cookies to mini tea
as shipping on a rush order alone can add wellsandwiches and crudités, you can keep your
over $50.00 extra. Above all, take full advantageguests' stomachs full on just a few dollars. By
of volume pricing on your order of affordablemaking a number of refreshments in large
wedding favors, which helps you avoid paying thequantities, you can drive down the price. A few
lowest (and most expensive) tier price.brides have even been known to serve fondue -
The Lovely but Reduced-Priced Dress Route:of either the chocolate or cheese kind - both of
Finding the perfect wedding dress is considered anwhich can be accompanied by a tasty selection of
epic quest by many brides who are planning their'dippable' foodstuffs.
own wedding, but still want to look their loveliestInstead of spending thousands of dollars on
on that special day. Whether the bride choosescatering, you can also re-introduce a concept that
hundreds of flounces and tulle or a simple A-lineused to be popular in the late nineteenth and early
design, the whole ensemble - dress, veil,twentieth centuries when planning your own
undergarments, and shoes - can add up ratherwedding: a pot-luck reception. Sure, it may sound
quickly. To save money while planning your owna little folksy, but it's what the brides of
wedding, you have a few options, most of whichyesteryear used to do to avoid spending a lot of
present themselves online. Search for dresses onmoney when wallets were essentially empty.
auction sites, such as eBay, or classified ad sites,Etiquette dictates, however, that the couple
such as Craigslist, to find previously worn weddingconsider these offerings of food comparable to a
gowns at cheap, bargain basement prices. Youwedding gift or at least a significant part of it.
can often find name brand or even designerEven if you choose this option, decorating the
dresses in great condition, along with all thetables is still a necessity - set the mood with
accessories. If you want to take your searchfreshly ironed tablecloths, polished candelabras,
offline, contact thrift stores and consignmentand those affordable wedding favors you
shops in your town to see what their inventoriespurchased earlier.
are like before hitting the pavement.And finally, we come to the cake. Remember
If you'd rather have something more personalized,that research conducted by the Bridal Association
you can have your dress made, although this willof America? The survey found that the cake
be a little more expensive. Occasionally, art andalone cost $543. You could feasibly cut that
design students offer their services for a cheapernumber in half or even by two-thirds if you make
dressmaking fee than established places and canthe cake yourself. Have your mother, sisters,
create a dress for you at well below marketfemale relatives, or bridesmaids help you with this
value. You can also have a trusted friend who hastask; purchase a book on the topic or research
time and sewing prowess make your dreamtips on the Internet. If this sounds like it could be
dress from scratch.a huge disaster and take time away from planning
You can get a visual of your desired dream dressyour own wedding, try something easier instead:
using this helpful online tool while planning yourwedding cake cupcakes. Simple, easier to
own wedding - the Wedding Dress Creator (decorate, and just the right portion, cupcakes
which allows you to select from a variety ofbake fast and are a break away from the usual.
options, such as dress length, shape, and color.From Discount Decorations to Affordable Wedding
The Date Matters More than You Think:Favors and Beyond
Oftentimes, the date you choose can beCutting corners when planning your own wedding
significantly more expensive than another.doesn't mean your big day has to look cheap. Far
High-priced seasons, such as the spring andfrom it! Focusing on little details, like simple yet
summer, drive up your budget noticeably -affordable wedding favors, pretty, discount
caterers charge more for a filet of fish, anddecorations, and delicious but homemade food,
florists for miles around only seem to have theincorporates your own personal spin and infuses
most expensive lilies. During the crisper, colder fallyour wedding with character. Think planning your
and winter months, when most couples areown wedding and showing your guests a great
reluctant to schedule or even attempt planningtime on a limited budget is still impossible? Just
their own wedding, prices come down noticeably.remember that they're there, first and foremost,
Photographers lower their prices, and holidayto celebrate the love and commitment of the
decorations (especially ideal for a Christmas orhappy couple.
Easter-themed wedding) are already up and in