| All grooms go through it: the anxiety, the fear, | | | | fears with your fiance, if you have to, but a lot |
| the waves of nausea as you think, "Do I really, | | | | of it is about affirming how much you love your |
| really know what I'm getting into?"Getting cold | | | | fiance, and why you proposed to her in the first |
| feet doesn't necessarily mean you're not 100% in | | | | place.Maybe it's time you scheduled some "couple |
| love with your bride-to-be. It's a normal response | | | | time" together - a romantic getaway. You'll be |
| to the realization that you're about to go through | | | | able to emotionally reconnect again (you may |
| a major life change. Some men worry that they | | | | have been distracted by the many details of |
| won't be able to support a family; others look at | | | | planning a wedding). It will also let you de-stress. |
| the responsibilities ahead and wonder if that | | | | Those panic attacks you get in the middle of the |
| means they'll never be able to hang out with the | | | | night have also been triggered by the demands of |
| gang. But most of them say, after the wedding | | | | negotiating with suppliers, fleshing out the guest |
| and even well into their marriage, "It's not as bad | | | | list, deciding whether or not you'll get a string |
| as you imagine it to be." Those responsibilities? | | | | quartet or a soloist.Take a break from it all, and |
| You share them. That's what being a couple is | | | | let yourself fall in love all over again. That's what |
| about. And you'll still be able to see your friends. | | | | the wedding is about, after all.Lesley-Ann Graham |
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